Bloggy Defensiveness

I'm finding it really hard - if not impossible - not to come across as a defensive a-hole for being publicaly taken to task on erroneous assumptions and lack of research.  I have reactive tendencies; however there's a fine line between being defensive and just being pissed at someone for not doing their homework and getting their stuff wrong (and since its about me, I take it personally).

I'll let you read the blog posting and comments and let you draw your own conclusion: http://www.nonprofittechblog.org/nonprofit-20